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Welcome reception with passed champagne and sparkling water
Join us for an oceanfront ceremony with breathtaking sunset views
Coastal-inspired appetizers and signature cocktails
Dinner, dancing, and celebration under the stars
Keep the celebration going with late-night bites and drinks
Last call — time to rest up and enjoy the rest of your weekend
Polished, classic, and slightly elevated — but not overly formal. Think East Coast prep softened for a celebratory evening by the ocean.
For her: A flowy midi or maxi dress, a tailored jumpsuit, or a blazer with trousers. Remember — the ceremony is on an outdoor oceanfront deck.
For him: Chinos or dress trousers, a button-down, and loafers or leather shoes. A blazer or sport coat is always a great look, though not required.
Linen, cotton, and light fabrics are perfect. Think Tuckernuck, J.Crew, or Faherty — that polished New England summer feeling. Please skip beachwear, casual flip flops, and all-white or ivory.
October evenings in Montauk can be cool — we recommend bringing a light layer.
Help us build the ultimate reception playlist! Drop a song or two that will get you on the dance floor.
All wedding weekend events take place at Gurney's Montauk Resort & Seawater Spa — from the Friday welcome event to Saturday's ceremony, reception, and after party. Stay where the celebration happens.
Gurney's is a luxury oceanfront resort with a world-class seawater spa, private beach, heated ocean-fed pool, and multiple dining options. It's the only resort in the Hamptons located directly on the ocean.
We encourage all guests to stay at Gurney's so you can walk to every event, enjoy the resort amenities, and be part of the full weekend experience.
We've reserved a block of 20 rooms at special rates for the weekend. A two-night minimum stay is required (Friday Oct 23 – Sunday Oct 25).
⚠️ Room block rates are held until June 30, 2026 — book early to secure your preferred room.
You can also call to reserve and mention the Everett & Akre Wedding. For extended stays or questions, contact Cindy Babyak at cindy.babyak@gurneysresorts.com.
We recommend arriving by midday Friday, October 23rd to enjoy the weekend activities.
If Gurney's is fully booked or you'd like other options, there are several hotels nearby:
Make a long weekend of it. From Montauk's rugged coastline to the charm of Sag Harbor and the elegance of East Hampton, there's so much to see and do.
The oldest lighthouse in New York, perched at the easternmost tip of Long Island. Panoramic ocean views and a small museum inside.
The studio and home of Jackson Pollock and Lee Krasner. A must-see for art lovers — the paint-splattered studio floor is iconic.
World-class museum showcasing American art with a stunning Herzog & de Meuron–designed building. Rotating exhibitions and beautiful grounds.
Montauk's most beloved beach. Great for surfing, walking, and watching the waves. Laid-back locals-only energy.
Wide, pristine stretch of sand in one of the Hamptons' most beautiful settings. Quieter and tucked away — perfect for a peaceful morning.
A hidden gem at the end of Gerard Drive on Fort Pond Bay. Calm water, gorgeous sunsets, and a local secret worth finding.
Iconic Hamptons winery with beautiful grounds, a tasting room, and their famous rosé. The perfect afternoon stop.
Boutique winery known for creative, small-batch wines and a charming sculpture garden. A more intimate tasting experience.
A Montauk classic for impeccably fresh seafood — lobster, clams, and the catch of the day. Casual, unfussy, and exactly what you want by the water.
An iconic Montauk institution and local favorite for decades. Relaxed pub fare, burgers, and cold drinks in the heart of town.
Italian coastal cuisine from the team behind Manhattan's Il Buco. Fresh pasta, seafood, and a chic beachy setting.
Lively spot with a great outdoor scene, creative cocktails, and a fun, social atmosphere. Very close to Montauk — perfect for a casual night out.
Mediterranean-inspired dishes in a warm, inviting space. A Sag Harbor favorite with an excellent wine list and cozy ambiance.
A Hamptons institution since 1846. Classic fine dining with one of the most celebrated wine cellars on Long Island. Old-world charm at its best.
French-American bistro that's a Hamptons staple. Warm atmosphere, excellent food, and the kind of place you want to linger.
Farm-to-table fine dining at a beautifully restored 19th-century house. Chef Jean-Georges Vongerichten's Hamptons outpost.
Renowned public course designed by Robert Trent Jones. Considered one of the best public courses in the state — book a tee time early.
A serene wellness retreat in the Hamptons offering Japanese-inspired spa treatments, sound baths, and forest bathing experiences.
The oldest cattle ranch in the United States, right in Montauk. Trail rides through rolling pastures with ocean views.
Former military base with hiking trails, dramatic coastal bluffs, and the iconic radar tower. Easy trails with incredible ocean views.
Cliffside trails overlooking the Atlantic with wildflowers and WWII-era bunkers. A short, beautiful walk minutes from town.
A unique preserve with shifting sand dunes, a freshwater bog, and panoramic views of Napeague Harbor. Unlike anywhere else on Long Island.
The Hamptons' luxury shopping destination. Tiffany, Ralph Lauren, Clic Gallery, and more — all set along tree-lined streets.
Charming boutiques, independent bookshops, and art galleries in a picturesque whaling village. More laid-back and artsy than East Hampton.
Surf shops, local boutiques, and casual cafés. Pick up Montauk gear, handmade jewelry, or just grab a coffee and stroll.
Yes, Gurney's offers complimentary parking for all wedding guests.
Montauk in late October is beautiful! Average temperatures are 55-65°F. We recommend bringing a light jacket for the evening ocean breeze.
While we love your little ones, we've planned an adults-only celebration to allow all guests to relax and enjoy the evening.
For guests staying at Gurney's, no transportation is needed. For those staying elsewhere, we recommend Uber or taxi services.
Please let us know about any dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we'll work with the venue to accommodate your needs.